Success doesn't happen by accident, you must look for the circumstances you want and if you don't find them YOU MAKE THEM.
Napoleon use to say : Circumstances??? Hell, I make them"
So go out everyday and create the circumstance that are necessary for achieving your next Goal.
There's nothing better than setting and achieving meaningful goals - goals that bring people alive. But you know what is even more fascinating and rewarding? It is the person we become while working towards the big goals, vision, purpose.
Taking responsibility, taking action and recognizing that you can do something about the circumstances you might be in and that it is totally in your hands will take you faster towards where you are going in life.
Most people allow themselves to be overwhelmed and depressed, just blaming the circumstances, blaming everything and everybody and living life like this is a practise run and like they'll be able to come back and do it perfect next time around.
Most people don't understand one thing: "THIS IS IT FOLKS". We've got to give it everything we've got and live life at it's best, enjoying every single day to the fullest.
Understanding self and walking around everyday with peace of mind, knowing that we can totally control and guide our Attitude (Attitude is a composite of Thoughts + Feelings + Actions = Results) - can not be described, must be felt. Find a Mentor/Coach that will guide you toward that feeling of empowerment.
Success doesn't happen by accident, you must commit to put in time, effort and money to achieve your next worthy Goal.
Commitment is deciding that the price is worth paying for the goal that will e achieved.
Commitment is one of those things, realities that doesn't’t really take hold until is difficult….
Give your Commitment to someone - your Mentor/Coach and ask them make sure you do what you promised you'll do.
Being Committed and accountable to someone - is like an Insurance Policy against failure..
Have a clear understanding that we need to commit to doing what we want in life and if that is really what we want from the core of our being we'll figure out how to do it. And that to achieve bigger goals and to get into a bigger game it takes a Definite Commitment, it never happens by accident.
As you work toward your Big Goals enjoy your Journey of growth and prosperity. I sure enjoy every second.
May only good come your way.
Lorena
Thursday, October 28, 2010
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Three steps to Change Your Income....
Three steps to Change Your Income....
You Don't have to figure out how to get there before you leave? Just START.....Start by guiding your own Energy.
*Choose your Goal
*Choose the thoughts that will set your body in the vibration that is necessary to attract the circumstances and the people that are necessary to ACHIEVE YOUR GOAL
*STAY IN THAT VIBRATION.
Do you know that your Energy is forever moving into form?
And guess what? You can choose if it's Positive or Negative Form.
YOU ARE THE ONE THAT CHOOSES/GIVES IT FORM.
All the great Leaders for Centuries have agreed that "We become what we think about" so wouldn't it be smart to choose your THOUGHTS carefully?
When we choose a negative thought, it is negative energy that leaves our body, that negative vibration can only attract negative circumstances and people in the same type of energy. How do you like that?
Winners, in life as in poker, aren't dealt better hands. Winners play the hands they are dealt better.
Very successful people EXPECT SUCCESS, THEY EXPECT TO WIN. They believe they can achieve everything they set their mind to.
Your Actions are caused by the vibration you are in. Think positive, believe you can do it. Now go out and ACT on it.....
You see most people are extras in their own movie. - You can choose to be the Director of yours....
Be an Achiever! Most people tip-toe trough life hoping they'll make it safely to death.
To Achieve better Results, great Success, to win in a BIG WAY we've got to get out of our Comfort Zone....Aim High in Life.
NR.1 Find a Mentor/ Coach
NR.2 SET SPECIFIC GOALS
NR.3 ALTER Your SELF IMAGE BECAUSE YOUR RESULTS IN ALL AREAS OF LIFE ARE ALWAYS A REFLEXION OF YOUR SELF IMAGE.
Example : IF YOU WANT TO CHANGE YOUR INCOME BUT YOU DON'T CHANGE YOUR SELF IMAGE YOUR GOING TO BE DEAD IN THE WATTER, IT'S NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN.(It is your Self Image that dictates what you believe you can achieve)
YOU SEE WE ARE ALL TRYING TO GET TO A POINT WE ARE NOT AT - WE ARE LOOKING FOR ANSWERS, WE ARE SEARCHING FOR ANSWERS ALL THE TIME....
"The first and best victory is to conquer self." - Plato
You are the one who wants better Results right? If you are in sales you are the one that wants more Commission. So doesn't it make sense that you will have to IMPROVE YOUR SELF?
Abundance is, in large part, an attitude.
My definition of ATTITUDE is the Composite of THOUGHT + FEEL + ACTIONS = RESULTS
First Laws of the Universe are ORDER AND MOVEMENT. Chaos, when left alone, tends to multiply.
The purpose of life is to live a life of purpose.
The energy of the mind is the essence of life.
Sometimes in life you don't feel like a winner but that doesn't mean you're not a winner.
Please share your thought with us.
Lorena
You Don't have to figure out how to get there before you leave? Just START.....Start by guiding your own Energy.
*Choose your Goal
*Choose the thoughts that will set your body in the vibration that is necessary to attract the circumstances and the people that are necessary to ACHIEVE YOUR GOAL
*STAY IN THAT VIBRATION.
Do you know that your Energy is forever moving into form?
And guess what? You can choose if it's Positive or Negative Form.
YOU ARE THE ONE THAT CHOOSES/GIVES IT FORM.
All the great Leaders for Centuries have agreed that "We become what we think about" so wouldn't it be smart to choose your THOUGHTS carefully?
When we choose a negative thought, it is negative energy that leaves our body, that negative vibration can only attract negative circumstances and people in the same type of energy. How do you like that?
Winners, in life as in poker, aren't dealt better hands. Winners play the hands they are dealt better.
Very successful people EXPECT SUCCESS, THEY EXPECT TO WIN. They believe they can achieve everything they set their mind to.
Your Actions are caused by the vibration you are in. Think positive, believe you can do it. Now go out and ACT on it.....
You see most people are extras in their own movie. - You can choose to be the Director of yours....
Be an Achiever! Most people tip-toe trough life hoping they'll make it safely to death.
To Achieve better Results, great Success, to win in a BIG WAY we've got to get out of our Comfort Zone....Aim High in Life.
NR.1 Find a Mentor/ Coach
NR.2 SET SPECIFIC GOALS
NR.3 ALTER Your SELF IMAGE BECAUSE YOUR RESULTS IN ALL AREAS OF LIFE ARE ALWAYS A REFLEXION OF YOUR SELF IMAGE.
Example : IF YOU WANT TO CHANGE YOUR INCOME BUT YOU DON'T CHANGE YOUR SELF IMAGE YOUR GOING TO BE DEAD IN THE WATTER, IT'S NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN.(It is your Self Image that dictates what you believe you can achieve)
YOU SEE WE ARE ALL TRYING TO GET TO A POINT WE ARE NOT AT - WE ARE LOOKING FOR ANSWERS, WE ARE SEARCHING FOR ANSWERS ALL THE TIME....
"The first and best victory is to conquer self." - Plato
You are the one who wants better Results right? If you are in sales you are the one that wants more Commission. So doesn't it make sense that you will have to IMPROVE YOUR SELF?
Abundance is, in large part, an attitude.
My definition of ATTITUDE is the Composite of THOUGHT + FEEL + ACTIONS = RESULTS
First Laws of the Universe are ORDER AND MOVEMENT. Chaos, when left alone, tends to multiply.
The purpose of life is to live a life of purpose.
The energy of the mind is the essence of life.
Sometimes in life you don't feel like a winner but that doesn't mean you're not a winner.
Please share your thought with us.
Lorena
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
Listen : If you are not tough you'll quite.Weaklings quite.
Listen : If you are not tough you'll quite.
Weaklings quite.
How do I approach each Day!!!
The truth is You have to be involved in a Mission with PASSION otherwise your going to work!
Also You have to be one tough cookie if you are going to win in a big way….
As I very often tell my clients: If it would be easy everybody would be #Successful, everybody would be doing what they love to do most on this planet and actually get payed to do it.
The sad truth is only 1 - 3 people out of 100 do it…
Yesterday alone two people told me how lucky I was that I am my own Boss,that I don't have to be at work by 8 AM, I make my own schedule and how much they would love to feel the way I do about their job.
No man you don't, if you have to tell me about it you are not prepared to do what is required, you've got to be tough if your going to win in A BIG WAY. You have to leave victim hood behind a few times/a day, and when you hit a wall that nearly knocks the daylight out of you.... you must treat it like that was normal.... Wasn't it???? Ha,ha,ha. And very important: learn from your Lesson and keep going.
Oh, and almost forgot to tell you this and if you didn't LEARN YOUR LESSON you'll keep getting the same Lesson until you will learn it...
In any Project there are escape patches…and if U don't weld those escape patches closed I guarantee you'll hit them, you will.
And if your not strong you don't deserve to win. That's about the way it works.
So here's the answer:
What you do with your life is in your hands!!! We should only do what we absolutely love o do. We only have one life to live. This is not a practice run, THIS IS IT.
We don't get a second chance. Give it all you've got, do what your passionate about and do it with all your heart....
P.S. And if you are my client my promise to you is : I will not do my best - I WILL DO WHATEVER IS REQUIRED TO HELP YOU AND ME WIN IN BIG WAY.
To your # SUCCESS
Lorena
Please share your thoughts with us below.
Weaklings quite.
How do I approach each Day!!!
The truth is You have to be involved in a Mission with PASSION otherwise your going to work!
Also You have to be one tough cookie if you are going to win in a big way….
As I very often tell my clients: If it would be easy everybody would be #Successful, everybody would be doing what they love to do most on this planet and actually get payed to do it.
The sad truth is only 1 - 3 people out of 100 do it…
Yesterday alone two people told me how lucky I was that I am my own Boss,that I don't have to be at work by 8 AM, I make my own schedule and how much they would love to feel the way I do about their job.
No man you don't, if you have to tell me about it you are not prepared to do what is required, you've got to be tough if your going to win in A BIG WAY. You have to leave victim hood behind a few times/a day, and when you hit a wall that nearly knocks the daylight out of you.... you must treat it like that was normal.... Wasn't it???? Ha,ha,ha. And very important: learn from your Lesson and keep going.
Oh, and almost forgot to tell you this and if you didn't LEARN YOUR LESSON you'll keep getting the same Lesson until you will learn it...
In any Project there are escape patches…and if U don't weld those escape patches closed I guarantee you'll hit them, you will.
And if your not strong you don't deserve to win. That's about the way it works.
So here's the answer:
What you do with your life is in your hands!!! We should only do what we absolutely love o do. We only have one life to live. This is not a practice run, THIS IS IT.
We don't get a second chance. Give it all you've got, do what your passionate about and do it with all your heart....
P.S. And if you are my client my promise to you is : I will not do my best - I WILL DO WHATEVER IS REQUIRED TO HELP YOU AND ME WIN IN BIG WAY.
To your # SUCCESS
Lorena
Please share your thoughts with us below.
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
Reshape your Confidence.The SUCCESS ZONE - Is a way of thinking
Reshape your Confidence. The SUCCESS ZONE - Is a way of thinking.
What is Confidence? How do you define Confidence?
For me CONFIDENCE is Belief in myself with every cell of my body.
Believing that I can do and achieve everything I set my mind to. The ability to give myself a command and finding the strength to follow trough. Take full responsibility for my actions and Learn from mistakes. Take Risks and always, always go the Extra Mile.
The ability to take action regardless of the obstacles in my way.
Choosing to always focus on finding the solution in stead of focusing on the problem.
But I think most important, constantly choosing to STEP FORWARD INTO GROWTH instead of stepping back into Safety when a New opportunity to Grow presents itself.
To achieve a New Goal - it's never possible without feeling uncomfortable - Why is that?
Well, to achieve a New Goal means becoming somebody we have never been before, becoming a person with a higher Level of Awareness.
How do you define CONFIDENCE?
Please leave your thoughts below.
May Success come your way in all areas of life.
Lorena Heletea
What is Confidence? How do you define Confidence?
For me CONFIDENCE is Belief in myself with every cell of my body.
Believing that I can do and achieve everything I set my mind to. The ability to give myself a command and finding the strength to follow trough. Take full responsibility for my actions and Learn from mistakes. Take Risks and always, always go the Extra Mile.
The ability to take action regardless of the obstacles in my way.
Choosing to always focus on finding the solution in stead of focusing on the problem.
But I think most important, constantly choosing to STEP FORWARD INTO GROWTH instead of stepping back into Safety when a New opportunity to Grow presents itself.
To achieve a New Goal - it's never possible without feeling uncomfortable - Why is that?
Well, to achieve a New Goal means becoming somebody we have never been before, becoming a person with a higher Level of Awareness.
How do you define CONFIDENCE?
Please leave your thoughts below.
May Success come your way in all areas of life.
Lorena Heletea
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
I think THE BIGGEST MISTAKE A LEADER CAN MAKE..& YOU?
I think THE BIGGEST MISTAKE A LEADER CAN MAKE… and YOU?
What an interesting variety of answers...wow, love it, love it - i think my level of awareness grew by 100 centimeters...LOL. See what it does to yours.
Earlier I was watching a very empowering video and you know as a coach my mind is just fascinated with the variety of points of view and definitions of words or phrases and how people see,understand or define the same word or circumstance in a completely different way.
So here are some of the answers of some great Leaders in no particular order.
NR.1 Being Certain.
As we know things are rapidly and constantly changing, things are unpredictable. We can't act as if we know. When you think you know u don't pay any attention anymore, why bother, you know it already. A Leader should learn to exploit the Power in uncertainty. (Love this one.)
NR.2 Betraying Trust.
Absolutely, I mean who will give it her or his best to someone they don't trust.
NR.3 Not living up to their values.
NR.4 Being so enamored with their Vision that they loose all capacity for Self doubt.
True, what are the voices you are disenfranchising.
NR.5 Personal arrogance.
Creates social distance and power distance - which is demotivating and could lead to big mistakes.
NR.6 Acting to fast before thinking trough the issue.
Take a step back seek advice and approach with a new VISION OF where you are going
NR.7 It's all about the Leader.
It has to be about something larger than yourself…
NR.8 Not being authentic and consistent.
Be the same nice human being at all times.
NR.9 Not be Self reflective.
Great Leaders are constantly reviewing their behavior, thinking about developing themselves and how their behavior effects other people.
My Opinion is:
NR.10 Being judgemental.
When people feel judged we loose all power to influence them. And as Leaders we have to send people in a New direction towards a New Vision.As a Leader you must influence the thoughts feelings and ACTIONS of those you Lead. And that requires a lot of understanding.
Please share your points of view below and if you are a Leader take a few minutes and reflect. Are you making any of this mistakes?
L.
Have a very Successful Year.
What an interesting variety of answers...wow, love it, love it - i think my level of awareness grew by 100 centimeters...LOL. See what it does to yours.
Earlier I was watching a very empowering video and you know as a coach my mind is just fascinated with the variety of points of view and definitions of words or phrases and how people see,understand or define the same word or circumstance in a completely different way.
So here are some of the answers of some great Leaders in no particular order.
NR.1 Being Certain.
As we know things are rapidly and constantly changing, things are unpredictable. We can't act as if we know. When you think you know u don't pay any attention anymore, why bother, you know it already. A Leader should learn to exploit the Power in uncertainty. (Love this one.)
NR.2 Betraying Trust.
Absolutely, I mean who will give it her or his best to someone they don't trust.
NR.3 Not living up to their values.
NR.4 Being so enamored with their Vision that they loose all capacity for Self doubt.
True, what are the voices you are disenfranchising.
NR.5 Personal arrogance.
Creates social distance and power distance - which is demotivating and could lead to big mistakes.
NR.6 Acting to fast before thinking trough the issue.
Take a step back seek advice and approach with a new VISION OF where you are going
NR.7 It's all about the Leader.
It has to be about something larger than yourself…
NR.8 Not being authentic and consistent.
Be the same nice human being at all times.
NR.9 Not be Self reflective.
Great Leaders are constantly reviewing their behavior, thinking about developing themselves and how their behavior effects other people.
My Opinion is:
NR.10 Being judgemental.
When people feel judged we loose all power to influence them. And as Leaders we have to send people in a New direction towards a New Vision.As a Leader you must influence the thoughts feelings and ACTIONS of those you Lead. And that requires a lot of understanding.
Please share your points of view below and if you are a Leader take a few minutes and reflect. Are you making any of this mistakes?
L.
Have a very Successful Year.
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
How do I change my focus from "THE PROBLEM?"
Replacing Conditioning for SUCCESS!
All Great Leaders have agreed that "We become what we think about"...
So why are there so many people that are extras in their own movie?
Take a little time today and think about the next phrase: To become more successful we must become the Director of our own movie....
But where do we start?
Well, Self development is a great place to start, understanding and guiding Self, letting go of resentment, focusing on finding the "Solution" not focusing on"The Problem" will improve your results faster than anything.
Two of my clients asked me yesterday: "How do I change my focus from THE PROBLEM?" I wake up and I feel down, I'm negative and sad.
Do we agree that we can not solve "The Problem" at the level of "The Problem"? Or that we CAN'T use the same kind of thinking that created the problem to solve the problem! Right?
I think it would be safe to say that we need to change our Attitude.
ATTITUDE is a composite of THOUGHT + FEELING + ACTION = RESULTS
As we know our Energy is forever moving into form, and we can choose if it's Positive or Negative Form...Everything "Just IS" - it is neither positive or negative until we give it form.
Our Actions are caused by the vibration we are in....an our vibration is caused by the pictures we think to focus on, we bring positive pictures to our Mind we think positive,we feel positive, we ACT based on that vibration.....WE GET POSITIVE RESULTS.
Probably some of you are saying....yes Lorena, easier said than done.
No, it is not but trough repetition can be achieved.
Stradivarius did not become great over night....like all great achievers he became great trough repetition, practice etc.
You see thinking positive, speaking positive, feeling positive, looking for solutions etc. are Habits that we create.
We create them trough REPETITION and PERSISTENCE the same way we created our Old Way of Thinking....
Just think for a minute, It took you your entire life to create the good "Old Conditioning" you've been using up until this point.... you invested a lot of years and energy in it,you have a lot of practice using it, you've put a lot of effort into it right?
The next question I usually get is: Do you mean it's going to take as many years to change it?
No absolutely not, but don't disappoint yourself by expecting to change over night.
There are no prizes for finding negativity .....we must find our positive way in life if we are looking to change the direction we take in life.
The opposite of Courage is not cowardliness it's conformity…..it's just moving with the crowd…doing what everybody is doing, doing what you've been doing your entire life.
So What do you really want in life?
Are you committed to make the changes necessary to achieve it?
Please leave your thoughts below.
To your success.
Lorena
All Great Leaders have agreed that "We become what we think about"...
So why are there so many people that are extras in their own movie?
Take a little time today and think about the next phrase: To become more successful we must become the Director of our own movie....
But where do we start?
Well, Self development is a great place to start, understanding and guiding Self, letting go of resentment, focusing on finding the "Solution" not focusing on"The Problem" will improve your results faster than anything.
Two of my clients asked me yesterday: "How do I change my focus from THE PROBLEM?" I wake up and I feel down, I'm negative and sad.
Do we agree that we can not solve "The Problem" at the level of "The Problem"? Or that we CAN'T use the same kind of thinking that created the problem to solve the problem! Right?
I think it would be safe to say that we need to change our Attitude.
ATTITUDE is a composite of THOUGHT + FEELING + ACTION = RESULTS
As we know our Energy is forever moving into form, and we can choose if it's Positive or Negative Form...Everything "Just IS" - it is neither positive or negative until we give it form.
Our Actions are caused by the vibration we are in....an our vibration is caused by the pictures we think to focus on, we bring positive pictures to our Mind we think positive,we feel positive, we ACT based on that vibration.....WE GET POSITIVE RESULTS.
Probably some of you are saying....yes Lorena, easier said than done.
No, it is not but trough repetition can be achieved.
Stradivarius did not become great over night....like all great achievers he became great trough repetition, practice etc.
You see thinking positive, speaking positive, feeling positive, looking for solutions etc. are Habits that we create.
We create them trough REPETITION and PERSISTENCE the same way we created our Old Way of Thinking....
Just think for a minute, It took you your entire life to create the good "Old Conditioning" you've been using up until this point.... you invested a lot of years and energy in it,you have a lot of practice using it, you've put a lot of effort into it right?
The next question I usually get is: Do you mean it's going to take as many years to change it?
No absolutely not, but don't disappoint yourself by expecting to change over night.
There are no prizes for finding negativity .....we must find our positive way in life if we are looking to change the direction we take in life.
The opposite of Courage is not cowardliness it's conformity…..it's just moving with the crowd…doing what everybody is doing, doing what you've been doing your entire life.
So What do you really want in life?
Are you committed to make the changes necessary to achieve it?
Please leave your thoughts below.
To your success.
Lorena
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
How to form the 'HABIT' of making and keeping your RESOLUTIONS...
It is their Conditioning that will say "NO" to your offer...
How to form the 'HABIT' of making and keeping your RESOLUTIONS...
Any resolution or decision you make is simply a promise to yourself
that isn't worth a tinker's dam until you have formed the HABIT of making it and keeping
it.
And you won't form the HABIT of making it and keeping it unless right at the start
you link it with a definite purpose that can be accomplished by keeping it.
In other words, any resolution or decision you make today has to be made again tomorrow, and the next day, and the next, and the next, and so on. And it not only has to be made each day, but it has to be KEPT each day for if you miss one day in the making or keeping of it, you've got to go back and begin all over again. But if you continue the process of making it each morning and keeping it each day, you will finally wake up some morning a different person in a different world, and you will wonder what has happened to you and the world you used to live in.
Here's what has happened.
Your resolution or decision has become a habit and you don't have to make it on this particular morning. And the reason for your seeming like a different person living in a different world lies in the fact that for the first time in your life, you have become master of yourself, and master of your likes and dislikes by surrendering to your purpose in life.
That is why behind every success there must be a purpose and that is what makes purpose so important to your future.
For in the last analysis, your future is not going to depend on economic conditions or outside influences or circumstances over which you have no control. Your future is going to depend on your purpose in life. So let's talk about purpose.....
Ha,ha,ha.....in our Next Post we will talk about Purpose
Until then read this over and over again... make it a Habit
LH
Will tell you where this part is from...
How to form the 'HABIT' of making and keeping your RESOLUTIONS...
Any resolution or decision you make is simply a promise to yourself
that isn't worth a tinker's dam until you have formed the HABIT of making it and keeping
it.
And you won't form the HABIT of making it and keeping it unless right at the start
you link it with a definite purpose that can be accomplished by keeping it.
In other words, any resolution or decision you make today has to be made again tomorrow, and the next day, and the next, and the next, and so on. And it not only has to be made each day, but it has to be KEPT each day for if you miss one day in the making or keeping of it, you've got to go back and begin all over again. But if you continue the process of making it each morning and keeping it each day, you will finally wake up some morning a different person in a different world, and you will wonder what has happened to you and the world you used to live in.
Here's what has happened.
Your resolution or decision has become a habit and you don't have to make it on this particular morning. And the reason for your seeming like a different person living in a different world lies in the fact that for the first time in your life, you have become master of yourself, and master of your likes and dislikes by surrendering to your purpose in life.
That is why behind every success there must be a purpose and that is what makes purpose so important to your future.
For in the last analysis, your future is not going to depend on economic conditions or outside influences or circumstances over which you have no control. Your future is going to depend on your purpose in life. So let's talk about purpose.....
Ha,ha,ha.....in our Next Post we will talk about Purpose
Until then read this over and over again... make it a Habit
LH
Will tell you where this part is from...
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