Most people do not know they do more harm that good when they speak....

Do I achieve my goal when I speak?Do I make a difference?



Listening to people interact,more and more got to the understanding that most people do not know they do more harm that good when having a conversation...That goes both for business relationships and Personal.

How to begin? Well first step before you open your mouth ask yourself : What do I want to achieve by having this conversation?What is my goal?

Do I want to make a difference?

Do I want to make a good point and have the person in front of me interact with me a little different next time around?

Or do I just want to be an ass,hurt the person in front of me,make them feel worse than they did before the conversation and me just spit out whatever was bothering me(and ad some spice by bringing some of my previous anger into this conversation as well).......

We can always choose...

Do you know there is one major difference between human beings and animals?

And the difference is that us human beings we have the ability to choose,the ability to direct ourselves in life,the ability to think....

There is a nice saying that I really like... The only thing that separates us from the other animals is OUR MIND everything else you can find in a Pig or a Horse....
YOU SEE - Our BODY is an instrument of our MIND...

Do you direct and control your MIND?
Because IF YOU ARE NOT IT CONTROLS YOU... and most important it controls YOUR ACTIONS and therefore YOUR RESULTS....
Interesting....do you think so too?

Will get into it deeper in couple of days...

All the best to you
Lorena