We can not OUTPERFORM OUR SELF IMAGE!...

We can not OUTPERFORM OUR SELF IMAGE!...

What is Self-Image anyway?

The Self Image is the result of Ideas about you that were planted in your Subconscious Mind...by other people....before you had the ability to think for yourself.

If you were raised with praise,chances are you will be very confident.

If you were raised with criticism where everything you ever did wrong was pointed out to you,chances are you will be very insecure.

Doesn't sound fair does it?

But that's the way it works.

Paradigm is the word that we use to describe all these ideas that are fixed in the Subconscious Mind. (will talk in detail about Paradigm in a next post) .

For now we need to know that our Paradigm controls our life.

Dr. Maltz explains that : We act,behave and feel according to what we consider our Self-Image to be and we do not deviate from this pattern.

The Image you hold of yourself is a premise, a base or a foundation upon your entire personality is built.
This Image not only controls your behaviour it controls your circumstances as well.....
Would love to hear about your experiences and understanding of Self Image.
May only good things happen to you all.
Lorena

Intuition or ......Not? Intuition...Yes....

Today's Post I dedicate to my friend @BobBurg who brought up a very interesting Debate(Point)...(well him and @Randy_Gage two extraordinary human beings who are helping people develop and grow in awareness everyday)
Intuition or...Not? in his great Blog Post http://bit.ly/OMddj

To really make a good point a had to get into it deeper so this is more like a "Lunch or and Learn Presentation" than Blog post.

The Conscious Mind
We were all blessed with intellectual factors (OR MENTAL MUSCLES) and they are:

1. REASON - THINKING- the way we explain things to ourselves
2. WILL - Our power to focus on something
3. PERCEPTION - The way you see something, point of view
4. MEMORY - We can use our Memory to remember all Our Failures or all Our SUCCESSES
5. IMAGINATION - Napoleon Hill said: this is the most marvelous miraculous inconceivably powerful force that the World has ever known.

6. INTUITION-Our intuitive factor - It is what we feel about a person or a situation.
This is the part that picks up other peoples vibration,their feelings - the more we develop this faculty we can pick up on other ppl. feelings or what other people are thinking - most ppl. say one thing and think another, the more we develop it we can pick up their thoughts - we can eventually get to the point where you are not going to pay a lot of attention to the words people are using you are going to be more tuned in to what they mean by what they say or what they are thinking.

Did it ever happened to you that you walked into a room full of people and you thought .."I don't have a good feeling about this person.....?" that is Our INTUITION or let's say Have you ever entered a room and you felt the people in the room were talking about you.... ?that is INTUITION again.

Also very important to know that Intuition is like a mental muscle...so you cant train it,the more you use it the more you develop it.
I can tell you that it is fascinating to read between the lines and see where people are stuck and what Believes drives them....fascinating....This is one of the reasons i became a coach.


These Mental Faculties (Intellectual Factors) are in Our Conscious Mind they are our Creative Faculties as a matter of fact these are the Faculties that separate us from the rest of the Animal Kingdom.

In the Play " Secret of Freedom" Archibald M. said The only thing about a man that is a man is his Mind everything else you can find in a pig or a horse.
It is these Mental Faculties that give us Our creative Ability it is Our Mental Faculties that Build the image of Our Goal of wherever you want to go...this is why you can sit in a totally relaxed state and Build an Image of anything you want.

Next Paragraph I dedicate to one of my favorite people @Randy_Gage because I know he likes
Classical music Concerts.

Liberace rented a piano got all dressed up in Tuxedo and he sat and went trough an entire Concert and there wasn't a soul in the room with exception of himself. After each number he played he stood up and bowed to an imaginary audience. He understood the power of an Image,of Imagination and he built an Image and he lived as it was real and it did become REAL
IF YOU CAN HOLD IT IN YOUR HEAD YOU CAN HOLD IT IN YOUR HAND.

Hope you enjoy.
There's lots to talk about on this subject.
If you have any questions would be my pleasure to give you my point of view.
Also would be interested to hear yours.

Sending good energy your way.
Lorena

You will NOT wake up The NEXT Day More Successful...I Promise!

You will NOT wake up The NEXT Day More Successful...I Promise!

Being more successful in any area of your life be that Professional Life or Personal life requires Conscious Decision,Conscious and Constant Work. Doesn't happen over night!
Even when we make a DECISION to Change ourselves,how we do things or our ATTITUDE, our SUBCONSCIOUS MIND is Programed since childhood (by the age of 7 we are Programed to Do,to Believe and to Act exactly like the people in our ENVIRONMENT).....How do you like that???

Why do you think sometimes you scare yourself because YOU ACT JUST like your mother or your father?

Do you remember your mother screaming in the kitchen..You are just like your father or DO what your older brother is doing...?

Until the age of 6-7 we have no ability to REASON so everything that happens around us goes UN screened by our Conscious Mind straight to our Subconscious and it becomes a HABIT, A BELIEF... PARADIGM.
Now around age 7 when we start to REASON ....listen to this - WE REASON BASED ON WHAT IS ALREADY THERE,BASED ON OUR PROGRAMING...

The reason I explained all this is for you to understand that OUR PROGRAMING, BELIEFS,HABITS are rooted very deep, and we have been acting a certain way for so many YEARS - don't think You are going to change all that over night... EVEN WITH BEST INTENTIONS.
This is the reason why when you make a commitment at the beginning of the year to exercise or to start eating better you fail after a week or two...

Most of us need help to CHANGE or CREATE A NEW HABIT...It requires CONSCIOUS AND CONSTANT WORK.

Started a 30 Day Habit Changing/ Adding Challenge. Choose 1 Habit you think would accelerate your steps towards achieving your Goal - Lets work as a Team is more Powerful...

We can support each other.
Choose one Habit you commit to do everyday for next 30 Days and just send me a Tweet with the words DONE....

See you soon
Lorena

ONE CAN NOT GET NEW RESULTS WITH OLD HABITS...

ONE CAN NOT GET NEW RESULTS WITH OLD HABITS....

Please repeat that to yourself for the next 21 Days or until you get it...

It is so fascinating to me how some of the people I know continue having the same "Discussion" or the same "Arguments" 4,5,10..years later and people get more and more hurt, angry and depressed.

Yet many people I don't think understand that if they continue approaching something the same way they are Definitely going to get the same Results.

Please understand : Nothing Changes = Nothing Changes

Or as my Mentor Bob Proctor would say: The clearest sign of insanity is when you try to do the same thing and expect a different RESULT'''

Same applies to business, if we continue doing business the same way we did business 2,3,10 years ago we are gonna get hurt..

Why do we get the same Results, same arguments?

Well ,maybe because we forgot to change at least one ingredient, one Habit,one Belief so the CIRCLE of Life continues undisturbed... (we think) but it all effects us more than you'll ever know.
Why do we do the things we do Day after day after Day??

Because WE are in a Habit of doing them they don't require any thought any longer...
It's too comfortable why would we put any effort in changing anything that requires work and dedication and commitment and time....

I'll tell you it may be comfortable BUT IT'S A BAD SPOT...
To change a habit requires special attention and a lot of repetition but it is ESSENTIAL for anything in our life to change....

Next time we can talk about where to start...
Lorena

How does your MIND control YOU,your ACTIONS and RESULTS?

How does your MIND control YOU,your ACTIONS and RESULTS?

You see every Action we take is based on how we feel....

The vibration we are in causes us to FEEL the way we feel and that starts with the thoughts we entertain.

If our thought are negative,we are in a negative vibration,we don't feel very good therefore our ACTIONS can only be based on Negative feelings...How do you think your RESULTS will be?

On the other hand if your thoughts are POSITIVE,you Feel and ACT POSITIVE and your Results ...you give me the answer.

Our thoughts are based on the pictures we bring on the screen of OUR MIND.
And how do we do that?
Find out in my next post.

Wishing you a Phenomenal day.
Lorena

Most people do not know they do more harm that good when they speak....

Do I achieve my goal when I speak?Do I make a difference?



Listening to people interact,more and more got to the understanding that most people do not know they do more harm that good when having a conversation...That goes both for business relationships and Personal.

How to begin? Well first step before you open your mouth ask yourself : What do I want to achieve by having this conversation?What is my goal?

Do I want to make a difference?

Do I want to make a good point and have the person in front of me interact with me a little different next time around?

Or do I just want to be an ass,hurt the person in front of me,make them feel worse than they did before the conversation and me just spit out whatever was bothering me(and ad some spice by bringing some of my previous anger into this conversation as well).......

We can always choose...

Do you know there is one major difference between human beings and animals?

And the difference is that us human beings we have the ability to choose,the ability to direct ourselves in life,the ability to think....

There is a nice saying that I really like... The only thing that separates us from the other animals is OUR MIND everything else you can find in a Pig or a Horse....
YOU SEE - Our BODY is an instrument of our MIND...

Do you direct and control your MIND?
Because IF YOU ARE NOT IT CONTROLS YOU... and most important it controls YOUR ACTIONS and therefore YOUR RESULTS....
Interesting....do you think so too?

Will get into it deeper in couple of days...

All the best to you
Lorena

TEST: Feel good about yourself?

One of my friends and client made a very powerful point today... it's still resonating in my ears.

"People have a hard time forgiving until they feel good about themselves"

You know, depression is anger turn inwards. People get upset with someone else and they suppress that anger.

Many people walk around with a stamp collection.What do I mean by that?You know some people have a mental notebook and they keep track of all the wrong that has ever been done to them...

But the people that get ahead in life are the people that learn a lesson from every circumstance(Lesson on WHAT TO or what NOT TO DO) and keep going.

The only person that we hurt by not letting go of our anger is ourselves.

How does anger manifest? Could be depression for example, you know what depression is?Is ANGER turn inward. People get angry at someone else and they suppress the anger.

Nothing good comes out of holding on to anger....

How do you deal with yours?
Letting go of anger and all the wrong that was done to you from the day you were born and focusing on all the good things,all the successes and the achievements you had in life will take you in a completely different direction in life 1,2,3...5-10 years from now.
Being in that kind of vibration can only attract to you more of the same.......

This phrase is so important I'll say it again:
The only person that we hurt by not letting go of our anger is ourselves.
Till next time monitor your thoughts...
Let me know if there is a way I can support you, it will be my pleasure.
May only good things happen to you.
Lorena

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