Wednesday, July 28, 2010

If you do not change direction, you may end up where you are heading

If you do not change direction, you may end up where you are heading.

"I have had this thinking for so long… it just seems second nature". ….

Have you ever stopped to think how conditioned you are? How most of your responses are on autopilot, you don't even think about what you do or how you respond to any situation? You've been doing it your entire life…, you must be right!

You even hear people say things like: This is who I am!

Can you imagine? We define ourselves by our Conditioning, by our Beliefs and Habits.

Not so, that's not who you are. That's your Conditioning nothing else.And you can totally change that....

Tell you something even scarier - You and I are the product of someone else's habitual way of thinking - Your Subconscious Mind was programmed by someone who new very little about your potential.

Challenge you to take some time this week to think about my previous statements and then I have some very important questions that I would like to ask you.

How are you going to change you RESULTS in any area of life if you don't change your approach?
How are you going to change your approach if you are using the same kind of thinking?

Are you going to use the same old excuses and allow others to dictate your Results in life, in all areas of your life? Or are you going to start Self Development?

As my mentor Bob Proctor would say: A clear sign of Insanity is to keep doing the same thing and EXPECTING different Results.

Our thoughts keep us powerfully connected to Source and Self, Sanity and Sweetness.
“How are you creating your World?”

Join me let's start first steps towards Self Improvement together.

Know who you are and you will change your life.

Since I started Daily Self Development my life changed like night and day. I have never felt so at peace with who I am in my entire life and I as a result I have the time and energy to focus on where I want to go in life as oppose to where I have been....

P.S. All we have to do is understand Self and change our thoughts, so we can have Time and money freedom - to do whatever we want, when we want to do it and to have the money to afford it.

Isn't that what life is about? To do whatever your little heart desires?

Self Development will take you where you want to go in life.

Share your thoughts.

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Are you stuck in the Past? First Step to get UNSTUCK....

Are you stuck in the Past?

One of the people I admire (a must follow) wrote a very cool Blog post @Randy_Gage
"How Programmed are You?" you can find the post here -
at one point he said:You decide you don’t like this trait in yourself, so you read a Wayne Dyer book and proclaim yourself cured. If only it was this easy…
We keep doing things the same way over and over again even when they hurt us for a reason Programing - Self Image and it's not going to change over night.

And you know something else, most people can't do it alone.

We are attached to our own opinions, to our own way of thinking, of doing things.

Let's find first Step to get UNSTUCK....

Just as every Company has a Corporate Image every person has a Self Image.

Science and Psychology has isolated the number 1 primary cause of Success or Failure and it is the hidden Image you hold of UR Self.
This Image controls your Mind just a surely as your Mind controls your Heart Beat -

If you want to know what kind of Self Image you have - you only have to look at your present Results- in various aspects of your Life.

Your Results in all areas of life - are the outer expression of your Inner Image.

As you start to alter your Inner Image - everything outside begins to change- and believe me it does, and it changes dramatically - I do live by this rule or Law of the Universe....

One of the greatest mistakes everyone makes is - they are attempting to change their income, their position, their business - their attempting to change something outside of themselves - without changing what is going on inside. And you know what? It's never going to happen.

Emerson said: - "Of what use to make heroic vows of amendment if the same Law Breaker is going to keep them".

How many times you hear people say I am going to change that....I'm never going to do that again but they don't change their Self Image and 10,20,30 year from now they keep doing it - because they never changed their Self Image.

Ex. Sales people know how to do a better job than they do but they don't seam to be able to do it, you know you can do a better job in your relationship but you don't seam able to do it.



Trying to Change the Results in my life - in other words what is going on outside of me without changing what's going on inside - would be as foolish as trying to change my reflexion in a mirror without changing my physical appearance.

That's what people are doing - trying to change what is going on outside without changing what is going on inside.

And I know because until I found my mentor and this information I was one of those people.

So First Step to getting Unstuck is AWARENESS.

How do we increase Awareness?

Realize that The only thing that separates us from what we want is information….
Stop being a Victim of your Circumstances.

Create the Circumstances you need to achieve your Goals.

Bernard Shaw said : "People are always blaming circumstances for what they are. I don't believe in Circumstances. The people who get on in this World are people who get up, look for the circumstances they want and if they don't find them they make them".
So, stop fooling yourself.
Find a mentor and start studying, or you'll find yourself in the same position getting the same Results next year, the year after, etc.

Please share your experience with us.


Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Move Out of Your Comfort Zone by improving Self Image

What do I have to do to change / change my Results?
Do I have what it takes to be a winner?
I have a lot of great Ideas but I never get any Results....

We reinforce poor Self Image…We perpetuate Self Doubt with dozens of Questions we ask ourselves everyday….

The Time to be a winner is Now not tomorrow - the key to being a Winner is to improve UR Self Image.

Avoid becoming attached to YOUR Opinions .....choose to grow....

Move Out of Your Comfort Zone by improving Self Image.

Make a decision today that what was, was and WHAT WILL BE IT'S UP TO YOU.

Your Self Image is your own conception of the kind of person you are. It determines what you believe you can achieve.

Your Self Image was very likely unconsciously formed from past experiences: your successes and failures, your humiliations and triumphs.

This Image you have of yourself will determine how you interpret other people's reaction to you and significantly affect your success in everything you are ever going to do.
Your Success in any undertaking will never be to a greater degree than the image you have of yourself.

The only way to improve our Results in any area of life is by learning about self, making Self Development an everyday Habit, learning new things, INVESTING IN OURSELVES (time and money) and most Important :It's not just about Reading and Learning - IT'S ABOUT UNDERSTAND AND APPLY THE NEW INFORMATION....

I'll leave you with something to think about....
Bernard Shaw once said "People are always blaming circumstances for what they are. I don't believe in Circumstances, the people who get on in this World are people who get up look for the circumstances they want and if they don't find them they make them.

Or how Napoleon put it very simple.... " Circumstances…hell I make them"

What are the circumstances you must create today to help you get closer to your Purpose, Vision, Goals?

Please share your experience with us.


Wednesday, July 7, 2010

If we want different results, we have to be committed to change

If we want different results, we have to be committed to change.....

You know from my experience and just listening to people speak about themselves - what I hear is that they believe they are the person they are and they are stuck for life.

But as human beings we are designed to progress, to grow, to advance - everything around us changes, advances so fast that if we don't change and advance with it we are actually going backwards(there is no staying still).

Where do we start?
Well, I would say - Decide what you love to do and spend your life doing it...

Get out of you Comfort Zone - Change the way you do things, change the way you approach a discussion at work or in your relationship for example - one little change in your ATTITUDE will change your Results dramatically and you will take a completely different direction in life. Doing the same things the same way day in day out is boring.

Setting goals that you have already achieved and you know you can achieve? - there is no inspiration in that.
Set a big bold Goal that will scare you and excite you at the same time.

But see that's where most people are stuck - For your Results to Change - YOU HAVE TO CHANGE

Let me tell you something so, so true - to achieve a Bigger Goal - different Results in any area of life - professionally, relationship, financially, health - we must Change our Conditioning, we must let go of some of our most cherished Beliefs and Habits.

Only when our belief system changes, our world changes – our Self Image is changed....and most important our RESULTS change.

Don't forget to take it slow(be patient with yourself) because it took you your entire life to create your Conditioning(how about your last 4 generations) - because you know you inherited all kinds of Beliefs from your....grand grand parents, grandparents....etc. - so do not expect for that Conditioning to change over night - just because you made a decision on January 1 st. LOL

Choose a new Habit that you would like to change this week - think of something that you know that if you would do daily - your Results in your Business would change dramatically.

Me for example - have been on a Intense Daily Self Development Journey - there is nothing like understanding SELF / adjusting Image of Self in all areas of life -or learning how to control and direct my ATTITUDE in any circumstance.

This week's New Habit for me is - Get up @ 5AM to do Self Development and study (so I can improve my ability to do what I'm doing more effectively) 2h./daily -

How about you?

Please share your experience with us.