Are you stuck in the Past?
One of the people I admire (a must follow) wrote a very cool Blog post @Randy_Gage
"How Programmed are You?" you can find the post here http://bit.ly/bPQDhn -
at one point he said:You decide you don’t like this trait in yourself, so you read a Wayne Dyer book and proclaim yourself cured. If only it was this easy…
We keep doing things the same way over and over again even when they hurt us for a reason Programing - Self Image and it's not going to change over night.
And you know something else, most people can't do it alone.
We are attached to our own opinions, to our own way of thinking, of doing things.
Let's find first Step to get UNSTUCK....
Just as every Company has a Corporate Image every person has a Self Image.
Science and Psychology has isolated the number 1 primary cause of Success or Failure and it is the hidden Image you hold of UR Self.
This Image controls your Mind just a surely as your Mind controls your Heart Beat -
If you want to know what kind of Self Image you have - you only have to look at your present Results- in various aspects of your Life.
Your Results in all areas of life - are the outer expression of your Inner Image.
As you start to alter your Inner Image - everything outside begins to change- and believe me it does, and it changes dramatically - I do live by this rule or Law of the Universe....
One of the greatest mistakes everyone makes is - they are attempting to change their income, their position, their business - their attempting to change something outside of themselves - without changing what is going on inside. And you know what? It's never going to happen.
Emerson said: - "Of what use to make heroic vows of amendment if the same Law Breaker is going to keep them".
How many times you hear people say I am going to change that....I'm never going to do that again but they don't change their Self Image and 10,20,30 year from now they keep doing it - because they never changed their Self Image.
Ex. Sales people know how to do a better job than they do but they don't seam to be able to do it, you know you can do a better job in your relationship but you don't seam able to do it.
It is THE IMAGE YOU HOLD OF YOURSELF!
Trying to Change the Results in my life - in other words what is going on outside of me without changing what's going on inside - would be as foolish as trying to change my reflexion in a mirror without changing my physical appearance.
That's what people are doing - trying to change what is going on outside without changing what is going on inside.
And I know because until I found my mentor and this information I was one of those people.
So First Step to getting Unstuck is AWARENESS.
How do we increase Awareness?
Realize that The only thing that separates us from what we want is information….
Stop being a Victim of your Circumstances.
Create the Circumstances you need to achieve your Goals.
Bernard Shaw said : "People are always blaming circumstances for what they are. I don't believe in Circumstances. The people who get on in this World are people who get up, look for the circumstances they want and if they don't find them they make them".
So, stop fooling yourself.
Find a mentor and start studying, or you'll find yourself in the same position getting the same Results next year, the year after, etc.
Please share your experience with us.
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