Stop seeing yourself the way you are; start seeing yourself the way you want to be

Stop seeing yourself the way you are; start seeing yourself the way you want to be.....

               I know, it feels overwhelming but  I can say this to you from my own experience -  chaos, when left alone, tends to multiply....so we absolutely must start creating the Self we want to become. 

                  And don't just sit there and feel like you are a victim of your circumstances... you are not, you have infinite potential. 

                 You are not alone, it is normal to feel overwhelmed, you can't possibly know everything,  you are the best at what you chose to do for a living or what you are passionate about. 

                If you don't know enough about self development(and most people don't) find a mentor, a coach, someone who will bring clarity to your marvelous Mind, someone who will help you get out of your Comfort Zone and help you grow as a human being.

                Someone who will help you set specific goals and help you alter your Self Image -  BECAUSE OUR RESULTS ARE ALWAYS A REFLEXION OF OUR SELF IMAGE.....that is the ONLY  way to achieve Success or better Results in your life (Financial, Health, Relationships).

Really successful people are not afraid to ask for help when they need it.

              You must first see yourself Successful, feel successful, feel good about yourself, believe you can achieve whatever you want to achieve.

As Plato would say : The first and best victory is to conquer self. 

For Example : If you are trying to increase your Income without improving your Self Image you are dead in the watter.

 

You see, because Our Self Image dictates the Results we are getting IN ALL AREAS OF LIFE -  we will never outperform OUR SELF IMAGE...... 

SELF IMAGE = What we believe about Ourselves = What we believe we can achieve 

Next Post we'll take it a little further.....

What do you believe is the most important step in becoming more successful in life?

LH

We tend to compare our weaknesses to other people's strengths..

               We tend to compare our weaknesses to other people's strengths...

                Can you describe your Strengths as well as you can describe your weaknesses? 

To remake your Self Image is to remake your life.

                    Our Self Image can be our biggest support or our most difficult challenge. How do you chose to see yourself?   

Success = Self Image

               So let's see how Self Image will control our Results in all areas of life and how we can use it to better our Results.

Our Self Image was formed by our past experiences.

                     Do You know that the smallest negative incidents(failures) from your past (1,5 10 years ago) can still influence your Results today and 50 years from now if you don't understand how that works and how you can change it?

Is that's what you choose to remember about yourself?

This is actually the reason I'm writing this blog post today.

             A few days ago while asking one of my clients  questions to determine where we are at (where we begin) she described some of her weaknesses with unbelievable accuracy.

             So I said, you know when we  learn how to describe all our strengths with same exact accuracy we are all set.  

You know why?

                It is because when we begin to focus on all our successes, our strengths, victories  - our Self Image starts to change - our feelings, our vibration starts to change and there for our RESULTS start to change. 

Thought = Feelings = Actions = RESULTS 

 

Your Self Image controls your Mind just a surely as your Mind controls your heartbeat. 

The degree to which you change is in direct proportion to the amount of truth you can accept and the amount of positive change you put into engineering your NEW SELF IMAGE.

Are you ready to change your Results? (financial, relationships, professionally)....

In our next post will take this a little further.

Please share some of your experiences with us.

LH

 

 

As an example will take our financial RESULTS. 

One cannot get New Results with Old Habits.....

One cannot get New Results with Old Habits.....Period. Do we agree on that?

                       In our previous post  http://ow.ly/1VMgm   we talked about Self Image and how that impacts our results and that the level of success we achieve in our life is directly proportional to the Image we hold of ourselves - our SELF IMAGE.

OK, lets see how to approach this and today we are going to apply the information  to our professional life.

Our Self Image is controlling the direction we take in life.

                  Are you trying to change your RESULTS? 

                  Let me tell you a little Secret: If you don't change the Image you hold of you, your Results are not going to change.

So let's take this little chunks at a time.....

Maxwell Maltz explains - Cybernetics is the science of control and communication found in animal and some machines.

You know it's the Cybernetic mechanism in the thermostat that controls the temperature in your home?If the temp. drops the thermostat will bring it back to where you set it.

Let's take an airplane - the automatic pilot is a Cybernetic mechanism - the pilot sets it and the Cybernetic mechanism keeps the plane on course - any deviation and the Cybernetic Mechanism brings it back on course

The Cybernetic Mechanism in human beings is Our Self Image.

It is  OUR SELF IMAGE THAT CONTROLS THE COURSE WE ARE ON

So, we said we will connect today's lesson to our professional life.

Example : If you are a Sales Person selling  $1.000.000 worth of product every year how do you think you can improve your sales when your Cybernetic Mechanism(Self Image) is set to achieve 1 mil.?

Or let's say you are an entrepreneur and you want to grow your business or if you want to interact differently with your colleagues at work how can you do that?

Well the only way is by changing your Self Image first. 

- If you don't change the Image you hold of you, your Results are not going to change because your Cybernetic Mechanism is set to achieve exactly what you are achieving now.

What are your thoughts about this? Please leave a comment below and in our next post we'll talk about steps to change Self Image.....

L.H.

Self Image - What do you really believe about yourself?

                 

                 

                 

                   

                  The level of  success we achieve in our life is directly proportional to the Image we hold of ourselves - our SELF IMAGE.

             WHAT IS SELF IMAGE?

SELF IMAGE is - what we believe about ourselves, what we believe we can achieve. 

This is all great stuff - but do you know that - we never deviate from this image unless we make a conscious decision to do so.

            We may be inspired to become experts by studying the successes and failures of others.  But we actually BECOME experts when we experience our own successes and thrive through our challenges.

Kenya K

Most people live and die and never fully understand the Power of Image Making.

                           The Image you hold of yourself is a foundation upon your entire personality is built.

                            This Image not only controls your behavior it also control your circumstances as well.

                             "What we believe, we achieve."  or  "The me I see is the ME I'LL BE"

And HABIT can be a Prison. 

What do you believe about yourself? What do you honestly believe you can achieve?

                    Take some time over the weekend and give this some serious thought. Write it down, and in our next Post will talk about some tools that will help you Create The Image of our Self that will help you reach New Levels of Success.

Please share with us your experiences.

L.H

 

           

      

Emotional Surgery? Learn to be your own plastic Surgeon!

Emotional Surgery?

Learn to be your own plastic Surgeon!

               We are a composite of hearth-aches and happiness of miss fortunes and good luck ...and we must realize that frustrations are there for us to rise above them and to turn them into a productive force of confidence. 

What is CONFIDENCE?  - is our capacity to rise above a mistake said M Maltz

             For a more successful life we must learn to remove some of our emotional scars within us that we put there ourselves.

Great example of the best plastic surgeon is @Randy_Gage  you can read his phenomenal Blog Post  http://su.pr/2zVevd 

We must learn to be our own plastic Surgeon! M Maltz

How can we do that?

Well, first place to start is to learn about self, understand self and most important to guide self.And we all have the ability to do that.

What do you know about yourself? Make sure you know something very nice about yourself...

             We all have a combination of good and not so good memories, combination of failures and successes and we all have the ability to choose what are we going to focus on when we start our next Project or when we work toward achieving our next Goal or even more frequent when we start each and every day.

                It takes as much effort to remember our successes as it takes to remember our failures. What do you choose for today? 

               HOW DO YOU USE YOUR MEMORY TODAY?

Us human beings, operate based on our Self Image and we never deviate from that image, we do that in every area of our life, be that in our professional or personal life.

Self Image is - what we believe about ourselves, what we believe we can achieve.

Very Important  - The Results I'm getting today are exactly as the picture I hold of myself....remember one of the good pictures from your past

            So, for today take 5 minutes and remember some of your successes, some of the times you have been a victor.... and write them down.

Please share your thoughts with us.

Next time we'll look at Self Image a little deeper.

L.H.